they are great to have and they have problems, they work it out. but some problems should be fixed and worked out. when firends have problems say with a boy friend they talk it out. but do they realize that when they ingnore the other person that they are really hurtting themselves watting for the other person to talk. firends and boyfirends they fight they make up and they get hurt they talk. keep silent and they just dont get anywhere, like a treadmill just an endless treadmill, your running and not getting anywhere. so now that you realize you have a problem FIX IT!!!!!!!